12 second scandal - What’s the best way to reject someone at a bar?
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Guys just aren’t getting the point when I try to use the girl’s night out line. I don’t want to be mean, but sometimes making small talk with a random stranger is the last thing I want to do.
Is it still taboo to have sex on the first date? I don’t really “date” anymore, and I’m curious what the norms are these days.
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So 12sec scandal is going to be something I do pretty regularly, and I’m going to get into the habit of posting the videos here and hope for a discussion to ensue. Of course I’m a gabber, so I might had some qualifying text to support the short videos, but the idea is to be an extension of my dating blog that is currently covered in cob webs. This is 100% a personal endeavor, so if dating topics don’t interest you than ignore this…I’ve got plenty of serious stuff elsewhere.
12 Sec Scandal - How do you define casual sex?
The only reason I ask is because I’ve noticed, of late, that my definition differs drastically from the men in my life. I’m pretty open about the fact that I’m not a casual sex kind of gal, for me I need at least a minor commitment - ie. monogamous - before I’m comfortable shacking up. More often than not a guy will concur…but then he’ll try to bed me…without a commitment. Either his definition is drastically different than mine or it’s just a line. I’m inclined to be believe both to be true actually.
